While others are doubting … Believe.
While others are playing … Plan.
While others are sleeping … Study.
While others are delaying … Decide.
While others are daydreaming … Prepare.
While others are procrastinating … Begin.
While others are wishing … Work.
While others are talking … Listen.
While others are pouting … Smile.
While are others are criticizing … Commend.
While others are quitting … Persist.
The popular phrase “think outside the
box” gave me the idea to “age outside the box,” living with power, style and
Satisfy us in our earliest youth with
your loving-kindness, giving us constant joy to the end of our lives. (Psalms
90:14 – TLB)
Many people over 50, with their toes
barely inside the new millennium, are discovering ageless living and endless
energy. They are neither imprisoned in the past, nor refusing to embrace the
present. People who are aging outside the box do not fear the future, but
rather capture each moment as an opportunity to learn, to grow, to become
increasingly all that they were designed to be.
Think of the people in your life who are
aging with power. There is power in living through the Word of God, The Holy
Bible. Rev. Rick Warren has taken me and millions of people deeper into the
understanding of having power through the bible with his book The Purpose
Driven Life. Hopefully, as we age, we enjoy spiritual maturity as we live in
There is power in the blood of Jesus. My
stuttering Paw Paw (Grandfather), who is now walking the street of gold, sang
with gusto, “There’s Power In The Blood,” directing our church choir. He loved
to sing, because he did not stutter while singing. As a ten-year-old girl, my
Paw Paw put me in his church choir. I vividly recall him turning red in the
face as he belted out his song, “THERE’S POWER IN THE BLOOD, POWER IN THE
BLOOD!” That song and my Paw Paw implanted forever in my heart and head that
the power of the blood of Jesus IS above all powers.
There is also power as many aspects of
aging become positive. It is possible older people may have more financial
flexibility to glorify God. With an empty nest, many are experiencing more
self-time and time to enjoy one’s passions. It’s a good time to start a new
career, enjoy a hobby, or live and travel to a geographical area of one’s
What style of life has God planted
inside your DNA? Many times, as we age, we flow into the life God has planned
for us. My passions are God, family, Country, writing, speaking and traveling.
I feel I have lived many years to get into my flow of life that feels good in
my spirit. I am enthusiastic about my style of aging. Your style of life will
certainly be personalized.
Life in Christ is unfading,
And he shall be like a tree planted by
the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also
shall not whither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. (Psalms 1:3 KJV)
(1) The power to live and develop.
(2) Power of continuing in force of effect.
(3) Physical or mental energy. (Webster’s Contemporary Dictionary)
And Moses was one hundred and twenty
years old when he died: his eye was not dim, nor his natural force abated. (Deuteronomy
Wow! Moses enjoyed vitality in his later
The 76 million baby boomers are focusing
on aging with vitality! In their quest for the fountain of youth, they are
changing the way we age. They have learned that exercise is the golden egg of
aging. It slows down aging by positively effecting your cardiovascular system,
your immune system, your musculoskeletal system, and your emotional well-being.
Exercise rekindles and re-sparks our fire for live.
Fighting aging is all about high
self-esteem and self-confidence, feeling good about yourself, and living a
happy balanced life.
By the end of this century, more people
will be over 50 than under in thiscountry. It’s important that we age outside
the box, with power, style, and vitality.
One day, a conversation between a
teenager and his grandfather was heard. The young man said, "Gee Grandpa,
your generation didn't have all these social diseases. You did not have AIDS
during your time. What did you wear to have safe sex?"
wise old gentleman replied, "A wedding ring."
Now, doesn't that make sense or what?
today is presented as a fulfillment of the animal lust inside every man and is
hardly ever presented as a sacred bond of union inside the institution of
marriage. You don't even need to go to church or attend a service to hear your
priest or pastor say this. Just watch the movies and all those television shows
and you will see that sex has been degraded.
young people of today are confused like never before. The more we still have to
remind them that sex is God's invention. It is a beautiful thing as long as it
is kept within the bounds of marriage. It enhances the relationship of husband
and wife and it is within God's design for all to follow.
is my responsibility, therefore, to guide my kids and explain sex to them even
as they reach their age of maturity. If I don't teach them early in life, then
somebody else will and most often, it will come in a distorted form.
Many business people I know are very good in their product presentations and
are good communicators. Yet when it comes to talking about sex with their kids,
they stutter, they stammer and worst, they stop communicating. A fundamental
principle in good management says that we are to give importance to proper
communication. There is never a moment more important than this--to communicate
to our kids what God's design is for sex and marriage.
knew a guy some years ago. He was very intelligent. He knew a lot about
computers long before I ever knew how to punch the keyboard. He was good
looking, articulate and had a photographic memory. One look at him and you know
he has all it takes to succeed in life.
Later on, when he got married, the truth about him came out. He couldn't remain
faithful to his wife. He would go into flings with various women and then end
each relationship with a bitter aftertaste. Never satisfied with any woman, he
continued having sex with one after another.
later discovered the reason why. As a kid, he was taught sex in a very wrong
way. His family owned a massage parlor and almost every night, his father
brought him there to watch him "do it" with different women. This was
his father's idea of "sex education." When he reached 15, the father
gave him his first woman. He never recovered after that. To him, sex is nothing
but a cheap thrill. Because of that, he was never able to live a normal life.
He would be successful in his career until such as time when he would mess up
his life by having affairs with the girls he was working with. You know what?
The man is practically a handicap. And I certainly know the reason why.
is beautiful. It is God's design and invention. Sex is not something you do
every time you attend a convention somewhere. Sex is not messing up with the
people you work with whether in the office or in the field. Sex is not a
purchase order given to one of those poor young girls making a living along
Quezon Avenue at night. Sex is not a peep show you watch through the
convenience of the Internet or Pay TV. Sex is to be an expression of great
intimacy with the person God has given you within the bounds of marriage. Times
are difficult as it is and you don't need another messy liaison to complicate
life. Watch your kids, too. You don't want to have another sexual handicap
walking the streets of our city, not now nor in the immediate future.
“Saul sent messengers to take David, but
when they saw the company of the prophets prophesying, with Samuel standing and
presiding over them, the Spirit of God came upon the messengers of Saul; and
they also prophesied.” 1 Samuel 19:20 NASB
Saul had ordered that David be hunted
down and killed. After learning where David had fled, Saul sent men to seize
him. But when they entered the town, these men saw prophets prophesying.
Probably to their amazement, “the Spirit of God came upon the
messengers,” and they began to prophesy!
This result must have angered Saul. Not
willing to give up, he sent another group to capture David, but these men also
came under the power of the Spirit. Then he sent a third group, with the same
Finally, Saul decided to go himself. But
he, too, came under the power of the Spirit! And he prophesied “continually,” controlled
by the Spirit.
We know that the flesh soon regained
control of Saul. Yet for that one day, he had experienced the power of the
Spirit in his life.
Here we have a powerful example of the
sovereign work of the Holy Spirit. The Bible tells us that God’s Spirit does
what He wants, for His reasons (John 3:8). He can fall on anyone, at
any time. His power is unlimited. He can open closed doors. He can move in the
lives of kings or presidents, men or women, young or old.
Beginning with the day of Pentecost
(Acts 2), Christians in the early church experienced the sovereign work of the
Spirit. They discovered that the Spirit could empower them to do mighty
miracles. He could give them unimaginable wisdom and understanding. And He
could turn around any situation.
In your life, seek to walk in the power
of God’s Spirit. Let Him fill you anew. Pray in the Spirit, and allow Him to
empower you. Remember: He can change your life and turn around any situation
God had a mission for Jeremiah. Would it
be fun? No! Would he become famous? Yes, but not for the reasons most people
want to become famous. God commanded Jeremiah to go to his brothers and sisters
in his home country in Israel and demand they repent and return to God.
Jeremiah knew it would make a lot of
people angry. He figured that he might be executed for treason. Therefore, he
made many excuses to God for why he wasn’t the right man for the job. “I do not
know how to speak; I am too young.”
“Alas, Sovereign LORD,” I said, “I do
not know how to speak; I am too young.” But the LORD said to me, “Do not say,
‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I
command you. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,”
declares the LORD. Then the LORD reached out his hand and touched my mouth and
said to me, “I have put my words in your mouth.” Jeremiah 1:6-9
Even though Jeremiah was making excuses
why he couldn’t serve the Lord, God didn’t give up on Him. He encouraged him by
saying, “I am with you and will rescue you.”
It’s natural for the Christian today to
do the same thing. We come up with clever excuses why we shouldn’t follow the
mission the Lord has given us “to go unto the ends of the earth and spread the
gospel.” We say to ourselves and God, “I don’t know enough about the Bible.
What will they think of me? I don’t want them talking behind my back. I might
lose my job! Let somebody else do it."
Fear is a great motivator and a greater
inhibitor. God immediately saw the fear in Jeremiah’s heart and said, “Do not
be afraid of them.” The Bible teaches that “the fear of God is the beginning of
wisdom and the fear of man is a stumbling block.” (SeeProverbs 9:10 and 29:25.) Allow faith to overcome your fears
and be obedient to God. He will not let you down if you are obedient to His
calling. He has your back!
Has the “Lord reached out His hand and
touched your mouth?” Has he “put His words in your mouth?” Without Him doing
this, you are powerless to accomplish the mission set before you. It would be
like a general assigning a private in the Army on a special ops mission for the
elite Navy seals. How can we realistically have Him put His words in our mouth?
Read your Bible! Study your Bible! Hide His Word in your heart! Take time to
have Him talk to you through Bible study and prayer. As His Spirit richly
indwells your heart, His Words will reach your mouth and fear will fade.
God never calls us to do something for
Him that He doesn’t empower us to do if we are willing to do the work and time.
Please, take the time to get to know God in an intimate way. As your
relationship with Him grows, you move up in rank and are assigned harder
missions. Your purpose on earth is to shine God’s love to a lost, dying world.
Your mission, if you should choose to accept it, is waiting for you! Open your
ears and your heart to the Lord and be excited about your new future serving
Him in truth and spirit.
“To the pure all things are pure, but to
those who are defiled and unbelieving nothing is pure; but even their mind and
conscience are defiled” (Titus 1:15).
Your heart’s condition will be expressed
through your life. It will be evident by your attitudes, your words, and your
behavior. Jesus said that you can clearly see others only when your own eyes
are unobstructed (Luke 6:42). If your vision is hindered by sin, you will not
look at others properly.
If your heart is pure, you will approach
life without malice. You will not question the motives of everyone around you;
you will not doubt the truth of everything others tell you; you will not look
for fault in others. Instead, you will look for the good in others, finding
what is praiseworthy. You will not be naive or gullible, but you will seek what
is good rather than what is evil. If your heart is pure, you will see others
the way God sees them (Matt. 6:22).
If your heart is defiled, everything
with which you are involved will seem corrupt as well. You will assume evil
motives in others because you know what you would do given the same
circumstances. You will be cynical about what you hear because your own words
are deceitful. You will be drawn to evil people and evil things.
How do you look at the words and actions
of others? Are you critical of them? Are you judgmental? If so, ask God to
purify your heart. Once He has, you will be free to see yourself and others as
“But Daniel purposed in his heart that
he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s delicacies, nor with
the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the chief of the eunuchs
that he might not defile himself” (Daniel 1:8).
The word defile here suggests “freeing
through repudiation.” Daniel was saying, “Any compromise of my standards will
rob me of my freedom.” So he committed to eat only beans and drink only water
for ten days.
When the chief of the eunuchs learned
this, he told Daniel, “You are going to cost me my life! You will look sickly
at the end of ten days. Your cheeks will be sunken, and the king will surely
notice. Here, eat just a little meat. You need the protein. Drink the wine to
build up your blood. Eat some of these sweets to give you energy!”
I believe Daniel and the three Hebrew
men had something more in mind than avoiding being ceremonially unclean. They
had been taken captive along with thousands of their countrymen. What they saw
when they first arrived in Babylon must have shocked them beyond belief. It was
a society so loose, immoral and full of wickedness, these four men’s spiritual
sensibilities were assailed.
They made a commitment with each other:
“We dare not compromise. We will be separate from society and disciplined in
our walk of faith.” They did not go about preaching their way of life to
others. It was strictly a matter between them and God.
When you are in a crisis, do you cry out
in unbelief and frustration? What if the Lord should answer, “I need strong
voices in these sinful times through whom I can speak. Where are you when I
need a voice? You say you want Me to come to your crisis—yet you remain a part
of the wicked, worldly system. Tell Me—are you committed to My purposes?”
Daniel and his friends’ witness was a
testimony that turned all the people’s heads around. They were delivered from
the lions’ den and the fiery furnace—and the whole society knew it was God who
to Stand Up and Fight
With all the talk going on in churches
about spiritual warfare, Christians still have not learned how to stand up to
the enemy. We are pushovers for the devil!
I do not believe every misfortune that
befalls a Christian comes from the enemy. We wrongly blame Satan for a lot of
our own carelessness, disobedience and laziness.
Let me tell you something of Satan’s
strategy: If he cannot pull the Almighty out of His throne, he will try to tear
God’s image out of you—turning worshipers into murmurers and blasphemers.
Satan cannot attack you at will. God has
put a wall of fire around His children, and the devil cannot go beyond that
wall without God’s permission.
Satan cannot read a Christian’s mind.
Some people are afraid to pray because they think the devil can read their
every thought. Not so! Only God is omnipresent and omniscient.
Scripture commands us to stand up, be
strong and do battle against our flesh and the devil: “Watch, stand fast in the
faith, be brave, be strong” (1 Corinthians 16:13). “Brethren, be strong in the
Lord and in the power of His might” (Ephesians 6:10). Simply put, we have to
become fed up with being held down by the devil—fed up with being depressed,
joyless, empty, harassed.
In Judges 6:1 we see the
Israelites at their lowest point ever. They were driven to living in dark caves,
starving, scared and helpless. Then something happened. It started with Gideon
and spread throughout the whole camp: Israel got sick and tired of hiding in
those dark caves!
Something rose up within Gideon—and he
finally said what God was waiting to hear: “We serve a mighty, victorious God.
Why do we go on, day after day, taking this abuse?”
God will not do anything until you are
thoroughly disgusted with being oppressed by the enemy—until you are sick and
tired of being sick and tired. You have to do as Gideon did—cry out to the
“What do you want with us, Jesus from
Nazareth?” (Mark 1:24)
Heads turned as the man’s cries pierced
the subdued atmosphere in the synagogue. One look and the worshipers knew that
this tortured soul suffered from demon possession. “Oh, no! What do you want
with us, Jesus from Nazareth?” the demon screamed. “Have you come to destroy
us? I know who you are—the Holy One of God!” (Mark 1:24, God’s Word
Many of the people had witnessed or
heard of exorcisms involving incantations, strange rituals, or props. But Jesus
spoke only a few simple words: “Keep quiet, and come out of him!” His word was
enough to silence the demon. The evil spirit threw the man down on the floor in
convulsions and left his body with a shriek.
Only a few minutes earlier, Jesus had
amazed the people in the synagogue with the way he taught with such authority;
now they were stunned by his power over demonic spirits.
“What kind of command is this?” they
asked each other. “With authority and power he gives orders to evil spirits,
and they come out.” (Luke 4:36)
During his time on earth, Jesus spoke
and taught about God with wisdom and authority. He demonstrated power over the
weather, evil spirits, diseases and infirmities of all kinds, and even death.
Yet most people refused to do what every demon Jesus ever encountered
did—acknowledge him as the Holy One, the Son of God. Although demonic spirits
strive to carry out the wishes of Satan, they instantly obeyed any command
spoken by Jesus.
Today, many Christians call Jesus “Lord”
but refuse to submit to his authority in their daily life. Jesus taught that
verbal expressions mean nothing if we don’t also obey him. “Why do you call me
Lord but don’t do what I tell you?” he asked (Luke 6:46). Being a follower of
Christ means so much more than saying the right words or singing the right
choruses; it demands a life fully committed to obeying God’s Word and
submitting to Jesus as our Master.
James made a convincing case that faith
is more than mere intellectual assent. “You believe that there is one God,” he
wrote. “That's fine! The demons also believe that, and they tremble with fear.”
(James 2:19) His letter explains that true faith will always result in a life
marked by godly living and good deeds.
Before Jesus ascended into heaven, he
commissioned his followers to make disciples on the basis of the authority
given him by God the Father. As we obey that command, our life becomes infused
with his authority as we tell others about God, teach from the Scriptures,
confront evil in the world, and bring healing to wounded people. If we are
fully submitted to Jesus’ lordship over us, then people will see his
authority through us as well.
[Jesus said] “All authority in heaven
and on earth has been given to me.” (Matthew 28:18)
Ask yourself: Does my life reflect
Jesus’ authority over me and through me?
Have you ever been disappointed? Either
someone lets you down or circumstances don’t work out the way you thought they
would. A woman in Terre Haute, Indiana, called the local police station to
report a skunk in her cellar. The police told the woman to make a trail of
bread crumbs from the basement to the yard and to wait for the skunk to follow
the line of crumbs outside. A little later the woman called back and said, “I
did what you told me. Now I’ve got two skunks in my basement.”
We have all experienced the truth of Proverbs
13:12, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick.”That kind of disappointment
can touch every area of our lives. Jimmy Evans, teaching on marriage, points
out that there once were three major causes of divorce: money, sex, and power
(or control). Now, however, the number one cause of divorce is none of those
three. It is disappointment. “You’re not who I thought you were.”
One of the major causes of
disappointment is promises that are not kept. A church choir director was being
driven out of his mind at the rehearsals for the Christmas choral concert. It
seemed that at least one or more members of the choir was absent at every
rehearsal. Finally they reached the last rehearsal and he announced: “I want to
personally thank the pianist for being the only person in this entire church
choir to attend each and every rehearsal during the past two months.” At this,
the pianist rose, bowed, and said, “It was the least I could do, considering I
won’t be able to be at the concert tonight.”
Cartoonist Rob Portlock, in Leadership
Journal, portrays a pastor making a Sunday morning announcement: “We have
a special gift for a lady that hasn’t missed a service in forty-five years.
Eleanor Smith! Where is Eleanor sitting? Eleanor? Eleanor ...”
Not all occasions of disappointment,
though, are due to someone intentionally breaking a promise. Sometimes
circumstances beyond anyone’s control interfere with our plans. That was the
case in one of the most disappointing times of my life.
My dad had bone cancer. He lived two
years with the disease. During the last year of Dad’s life we planned to ride
Amtrak together to Oregon to see my sister, Rosalie, and my brother-in-law,
Mac. Knowing how ill Dad had been, I was looking forward to that time with him.
In April of his last year he went into remission. We went to a train station
together, planning the trip in August. Then in August, when we thought we would
be traveling to Oregon, Dad died. I not only was broken up by his death, but I
felt that my last chance to be with him without distractions was stolen. It
wasn’t Dad’s fault. The circumstances were beyond his control.
Here is the problem with
disappointments. They can color our outlook on life, and can even change the
way we see God.
Jimmy Harris said, “A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the
past; he is one who is prematurely disappointed in the future.”
I have met any number of people who have
allowed their disappointments to color their view of God. They see God as an
extension of people who are either short on commitment or are short on the
power to control things.
Here is the good news. God is faithful.
I have often been encouraged by Paul’s words to the Corinthians, “God, who
has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is
faithful.” (1 Corinthians 1:9)
When I face my weaknesses, whether those
weaknesses are character issues I have or are just my powerlessness in the face
of events, I am encouraged to know that my destiny rests on the faithfulness of
That doesn’t mean, of course, that I
have no responsibility. I do. But it does mean that while I am growing in faith
and obedience God’s faithfulness protects me.
As the psalmist says, “His
faithfulness will be your shield.” (Psalm 91:4)
When I understand the faithfulness of
God, I can rise above every past circumstance that left me disappointed. I can
take His promises seriously and can put my life and my future in His hands.
William Penn, the founder of the
commonwealth of Pennsylvania, was well liked by the Indians. Once they told him
he could have as much of their land as he could encompass on foot in a single
day. So, early the next morning he started out and walked until late that
night. When he finally went to claim his land, the Indians were greatly
surprised, for they really didn't think he would take them seriously. But they
kept their promise and gave him a large area which today is part of the city of
Philadelphia. William Penn simply believed what they said. If William Penn
found the Indians to be faithful to their words, I can certainly expect God to
be faithful to His.
Moses pointed that out to Israel a long
time ago: “God is not a man, that He should lie, nor a son of man, that He
should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not
fulfill?” (Numbers 23:19)
If God said it, His character stands
behind it. He is in control of circumstances and will never have to say, “I
never saw that coming.” He not only intends to fulfill His Word. He is able to
fulfill His Word.
God’s commitment to us is more extensive
than most of us imagine. Author and business leader, Fred Smith wrote about an
experience that helps us understand this. He wrote, “One of my treasured
memories comes from a doughnut shop in Grand Saline, Texas. There was a young
farm couple sitting at the table next to mine. He was wearing overalls and she
a gingham dress. After finishing their doughnuts, he got up to pay the bill,
and I noticed she didn’t get up to follow him.
“But then he came back and stood in front
of her. She put her arms around his neck, and he lifted her up, revealing that
she was wearing a full-body brace. He lifted her out of her chair and backed
out the front door to the pickup truck, with her hanging from his neck. As he
gently put her into the truck, everyone in the shop watched. No one said
anything until a waitress remarked, almost reverently, ‘He took his vows
God takes His vows seriously. The
apostle Paul wrote to Timothy: “If we are faithless, he will remain
faithful” (2 Timothy 2:13). When I am weak, and even when my faith is
weak, He is faithful. We can depend on that.
God loves you. And because He loves you,
He wants the best for your life—restoration and wholeness. That’s why Jesus
Christ willingly laid down His life, died, and rose again. His sacrifice has
provided the way for us to find and experience the healing and restoration we
God has a plan for your life, and He
wants to heal you everywhere you hurt. John 10:10 says that Jesus came to give
us abundant life, and part of that abundant life is making sure
you are healthy and whole—physically, spiritually, mentally and emotionally.
But the truth is you cannot “catch”
health like you can disease. For example, if you're around somebody who has a
cold, you don't have to do anything to catch it. You can get it by just by
being around them because that's the nature of sickness and disease. But you
can be around a healthy person and you won’t catch their health. You have to choose health.
One of the ways we can choose life is
through prayer and by speaking His truth over our lives. I want to help you do
that. You can speak scriptures and confessions over your life to strengthen
your faith in God for the healing and wholeness you need.
Think about it like this: If I have a
headache, I take an aspirin to get relief from it. I have to swallow the pill
for it to work. If I put it on top of my head, it won’t do anything for me.
God’s Word is medicine for our spirit, soul and body, and the way we experience
its power is by speaking it out loud, praying it to God, meditating on it, and
believing it. When you speak His Word over your life, it releases that power
into your life. It won’t work for us if we just have a Bible and leave it on
the shelf. We have to use it.
God wants to make you whole, and what
He’s asking you to do is believe what His Word says more than you believe what
you think or how you feel. Keep speaking His Word over your circumstances and
in His timing, He’ll complete the good work
He’s begun in you!
the Medicine of God’s Word
Depending on your situation, one or more
scriptures or confessions may apply to a need you are facing right now. Take
time to read them, meditate on them, pray them, and memorize the verses that
will encourage you to trust God for the healing you need. Or write them down on
a note card and carry them with you so you have them on hand wherever you are,
whenever you need them.
You can search out the scriptures you need
in the Bible and make them your confession. As you do, you’ll be amazed at how
God’s Word will give you more of the abundant life you can have in Christ, and
you’ll experience the wholeness and healing it brings.